Muslim Marriage Advice

Recently updated on July 23rd, 2018

Muslim Marriage Advice
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The co-education system in convent schools today is another example for Muslim girls and boys to adapt into. Wherein, many of them love this boyfriend kinda relationship. Which is absolutely illegible and forbidden in Islam. However, it may sound awkward and narrow-minded and stereotype thoughts for current modern age.

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Bismillah hirRahmaan nirRaheem
With The Name of ALLAH, The Gracious and The Merciful
SallALLAHU ‘Alayhe Wasallam

Wazifa for Muslim Matrimonial Relationships

Also Known as Rishte Ki Ha Ke Liye Wazifa

This is really a very modern age with high technology and fast services. Being Muslim, sometimes it seems impossible for us to survive in this hi-tech world. The co-education system in convent schools today is another example for Muslim girls and boys to adapt into. Wherein, many of them love this boyfriend kinda relationship. Which is absolutely illegible and forbidden in Islam. However, it may sound awkward and narrow-minded and stereotype thoughts for current modern age. Whereas, to refrain and live in limits is far better than to fall in committing a sin.

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Islam never allows a girl mingling with a non-mahram male. If you keep yourself within the limits. It will never lead you to the path of Shaitan. Here, I am talking about the western culture.

If you look deeper into The Noble Qur’an, sink into Hadith and Sunnah. You will learn how a normal common man can live a happier normal life? Refraining himself from the entire leisures of the world. Let us not confuse ourselves with this. I am just coming to the point which is a pivot- ‘Love‘. Islam never says don’t fall in love’ but Islam stresses to ‘marry the one you love’.  See Ruqyah Shariah here.

ALLAH Subhanahu Wata ‘Ala has said in the Holy Quran in Chapter 5 Surah Al-Maidah Verse #5

This day are (all) things good and pure made lawful unto you. The food of the People of the Book is lawful unto you and yours is lawful unto them. (Lawful unto you in marriage) are (not only) chaste women who are believers but chaste women among the People of the Book revealed before your time when ye give them their due dowers and desire chastity, not lewdness nor secret intrigues. If anyone rejects faith fruitless is his work and in the Hereafter, he will be in the ranks of those who are losers. See Al-Fatiha Islamic Wazifa here.

ALLAH Subhanahu Wata ‘Ala has said in the Holy Quran in Surah Ar-Room Verse #21

And among His (ALLAH’s) Signs is this that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that ye may dwell in tranquillity with them; and He has put love and mercy between your (hearts); verily in that are Signs for those who reflect. See Islams Praying Importance & Offering Namaz here.

ALLAH Subhanahu Wata ‘Ala has said in the Holy Quran Chapter 17 Surah Israa Verse #32

Do not even go near Zina (fornication or adultery) for it is a very indecent thing and a very evil way!

Jaber related that the Prophet (SallALLAHU Alayhe Wasallam) said: When one of you seeks a woman in marriage let him look at whom he wishes to marry.
Related by Abu Dawood

Mughirah ibn Shu’bah narrated: I sought a woman in marriage. The Messenger of Allah (SallALLAHU Alayhe Wasallam) asked me :Have you seen her? I said: No. He (SallALLAHU Alayhe Wasallam) then said: Then look at her, because it is more proper that love should be cemented between you.
Related by Ahmed, Ibn Majah, Nasai, and Trimidhi

So we can conclude that if you love someone you should marry him/her. Love a woman only for the sake of ALLAH Ta’ala, to marry her. To live a legible idol life as a Muslim. If you are in love with anyone, do not commit zinah (fornication). This is Haram. Instead, rush to your parents and tell them politely about it. Let them handle this. As they can decide best for you then what you have decided for yourself.

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‘yaALLAH Rishte Ki Ha Liye Wazifa’ also known as Muslim Marriage Advice

If you have any confusion about your marriage with any particular boy. You can perform a yaALLAH Nikah Istikhara. This will Insha ALLAH help you to come to the right conclusion. Now, I am publishing one more Special yaALLAH Wazifa which is ‘yaALLAH Rishte Ki Ha Ke Liye Wazifa‘. If you have got any proposal which generally is the process in any arranged marriage in Islam. Or if you love anyone and you want to marry him/her but he/she is not accepting your proposal but rejecting every time. You can perform this wazifa and Insha ALLAH your proposal will be accepted this time Insha ALLAH, Ameen.

In these two conditions you can perform this:

  1. If you have got any marriage proposal;
  2. If you love someone and he/she or the parents are rejecting your marriage proposal.

#yaALLAHQuotes I am a lover of sadness, let my tears fall from my cheeks, I am thirsty of this saltwater! 

Muslim Marriage Advice or ‘yaALLAH Rishte Ki Ha Ke Liye’ in Urdu

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یا اللّٰه ویبسائٹ کا رشتے کے لئے وظیفہ

١. طہارت وغیرہ سے فارغ ہو کر اس عمل کو کیجیے۔

٢. سب سے اول تازہ وضو بنا لیجیے۔
٣. اکیلے اور علیحدگی میں کسی کمرے میں بیٹھیے۔
٤. پھر یَا مُتَکَبِّرُ ۱۱۰۰۰ مرتبہ پڑھیے۔
٥. تین روز تک بلاناغہ یہ عمل کریں۔ تینوں روز ایک ہی وقت پر یہ عمل کریں۔
٦. چوتھے روز والدین یا کسی بزرگ کو لڑکی یا لڑکے کے گھر پر رشتے کے لئے بھیج دیں۔
٧. انشاء اللّٰه اس اسم مبارک کی طاقت سے رشتے کے لئے ہاں ہوگی، آمین۔
غور طلب: خواتین حیض/ماہواری کے دوران یہ عمل نہ کریں تو بہتر ہے۔ ان دنوں میں عمل کرنے کی کوئی خاص ممانعت نہیں ہے پر اگر عمل کیا جائے تو اثر ہونے میں شبہ ہے۔

How to perform this Muslim Marriage Advice or ‘yaALLAH Rishte Ki Ha Ke Liye’ in Roman English?

  1. Tahaarat wagerah se faarigh hokar ye wazifa kijiyega;
  2. Sabse awwal taza wuzoo bana lijiye;
  3. Akele aur alhaidgi mein kisi kamre mein bethiye;
  4. Fir Ya Mutakabbiru 11000 (gyarah hazar) martaba parhiye;
  5. Sirf 3 roz ye wazifa kijiye tino roz kisi bhi ek hi waqt;
  6. Chauthe roz ap chahe to ladki/ladke ke ghar par apne waledain ya kisi buzurg ke zariye rishta bhijwaye;
  7. Insha ALLAH is Ism ki taaqat se rishte ke liye haan hogi, Ameen.

Ghaur Talab: Khwateen behtar hoga ke haiz/maahwari ke 7 roz ke dauran na kare. Wazifa karne ki manahi nahi hai lekin shayad ke wazifa ka asar na bhi ho.

How to perform this Muslim Marriage Advice or ‘yaALLAH Rishte Ki Ha Ke Liye’ in English?

  1. Make yourself free from toilet and all for deeper concentration;
  2. Make a fresh ablution;
  3. Read Ya Mutakabbiru 11000 times in lonely place or room;
  4. Perform this wazifa for 3 days only;
  5. The fourth day you or your parents, approach the girl/boy family for proposing for marriage;
  6. Insha ALLAH with the powerful effects of this Name of ALLAH Ta’ala, the proposal will be accepted, Ameen.

Important Note: I advise you better not to perform this during the 7 days of menses/periods. As you might not see favorable results.

 

How to perform this Muslim Marriage Advice or ‘yaALLAH Rishte Ki Ha Ke Liye’ in Hindi?

रिश्ते की हाँ के लिए या अल्लाह वज़ीफ़ा हिंदी ज़ुबान में

  1. किसी भी रोज़ और किसी भी बेहतर वक़्त शुरू कर सकते है;
  2. तहारत वगेरह से फ़ारिग़ होकर ये वज़ीफ़ा शुरू कीजियेगा;
  3. सबसे अव्वल ताज़ा वुज़ू बना लीजिये;
  4. फिर या मुतकब्बिरु 11000 मरतबा अकेले और अलहैदगी में किसी कमरे में पढ़िए;
  5. सिर्फ 3 रोज़ ये वज़ीफ़ा कीजिये तीनो रोज़ किसी भी एक ही वक़्त कीजिये;
  6. चौथे रोज़ अपने वालेदैन से रिश्ता भिजवाये लड़की/लड़के के घर पर;
  7. इन्शा अल्लाह इस इस्म की ताक़त से रिश्ते के लिए हाँ होगी, आमीन;

ग़ौरतलब: ख़वातीन के लिए बेहतर होगा के वो हैज़/माहवारी के 7 रोज़ के दौरान ये अमल न करे| वज़ीफ़ा करने की मनाही नहीं है लेकिन शायद के वज़ीफ़ा का असर न भी हो| ये अमल शुरू करने से पहले या अल्लाह निकाह इस्तिख़ारा या फिर कोई दूसरा इस्तिख़ारा करना ज़रूरी है और उसकी ताबीर आपके हक़ में बेहतर आयी हो|


62 Comments

  1. Juveriya on said:

    Assalamualaikum??? Mai apne ek cousin Ku bht like karti hu unke liye ladki dekhrahe hai mai unse h shaadi karna chahti hu unke taraf se h rishta aane k liye mai kounsa wazifa padhsakti plzzz jaldi bataye kynki unke liye rishte dekhre n bht jaldi b hai unlog Ku shaadi ki plzzzz bht urgent mujhe jaldi rply dijiye

  2. Musfera Jahan on said:

    Assalamu Alakum vai, I need help from you. “Ya Mutakkabiru” ka wazifa 3 din ka hey.. 3 din 11000*3=33000 bar porna he?? ya 3 din milake 11000 bar par na he??? rat ko por sakti hu?? rate 11.30 pm k bad por sakti hu? 1000 bar korne k liye mera 25 miute time lagta he. yani 11000 bar ak din me porle ki liye mujhse 4.5 hours lage ga…plz reply dijiye vai i need it urgently. because mera parents larka ko parents se bad korna chahta he.. es hapta me.. so i need your reply..

  3. AISHA on said:

    Mera rishta aya hai mery cozn ka unhi nay dosari baar dubara mery waldain say baat ki hai or wo razi nhi ho rahy mai chahti hoon waha krna or istakhra bhi positve hi aya hai … mujhy koi wazifa bata dain walain ko razi krnay ka …….. plzzzz

  4. shaz on said:

    Assalamualaikum kya ye wazifa ladke k maa ya behen karsakte hai.

    • ãl عِmrãń on said:

      Ji kar le agar majburi hai to. #yaALLAHcomments

  5. Ameena on said:

    Assalamualaikum! Imran bhai
    3 din wazifa karne ke baad 4th day kya mai khud Larke se Shaadi ki baat karsakti hun ?

    Please reply
    JazakaAllah khair!

    • ãl عِmrãń on said:

      Ji ha kar sakti hai. #yaALLAHcomments

  6. AOA Bhaiya, pir main kaun sa wazifa karoon bahiya?, aapke diye Ya Mujeebu ( shaadi ke liye ) aur ya jami ul muta farraqeena ( wapas lane ke liye )wala aur , alam tara kayfa ( mohabbat main pagal karne ke liye wala wazifa theek hai? magsad alag hain Bhaiya sabke.. Aur nuachandi jumerath ko i started Ya wadodo ya raufo wala, aur khoye pyaar ko wapas lana wala wazifa ( farz ki nmaaz main.. aap bataye main kiya karoo , sirf ya Mujeebu aur Ya jami ul ka aur alam tara kayfa wazifa karoon ? aur ek cheez alam tara kayfa main darood padhna hai kiya?

  7. shabina bano on said:

    Assalam alaykum ji meri beti shadi ke liye raazi hojaye uske liye behtar rishta aajaye or samne jo rishta jo le ker aaye wo rishta accept bhi ker le aisa koi wajifa batayein jo mein apni beti ke liye ker sakoon

  8. Afreen begum on said:

    Salaam main wazifa karu.lekin kuch asar nahi horaha.main ek jaga Humhare bare maloom karai.wo admi wo maolvi hai uno bole k kala jadu karaye. Isliye rishta toot gaya.main bahot pareshan hon.main nishat se bahot pyar karti ho.wo bhi karte the .sab achanak hogaya.kuch diye padne.rote rote tabiyath kharab hojai. Samjh nahi aaya.kya karu bhai.dua bhi karu.1200 bar dhoord e pak padru.sab karu

  9. Afreen begum on said:

    Mera talaq nishat se hua ek hi bar hua par main nishat se hi shadi karna chati ho.ye wazifa main karsakti hon lekin rishta nahi behjsakti ho.koi aur wazifa dijye jaldi hi kam banjaye.nishat k mummy aake mujhe lejaye

    • ãl عِmrãń on said:

      Ap Dua kare sis. Wazifa kar rahi hai koi ya nahi. #yaALLAHcomments

  10. Afreen begum on said:

    Aur bhi kuch wazifa dijye mujhe nishat aake lekar jao jaisa

    • ãl عِmrãń on said:

      Matlab. Mujhe samj nahi aya. #yaALLAHcomments

  11. Afreen begum on said:

    Salaam bhai mera talaq hua hai lekin ek hi bar hua hai.main nishat se hi shadi karna chati ho.ye wazifa karsakti ho.sab razi ho jayege na

    • ãl عِmrãń on said:

      ji ha ap kar sakti hai Do join BigRemedies- http://goo.gl/Qf4p3w #yaALLAHcomments

  12. kausar on said:

    Agar larkay ke parents razi ho, lekin lrki k na ho, to larki khud apne parents ko razi karne ke lea par skte hae?

    • ãl عِmrãń on said:

      Ji ha ladki khud kar sakti hai. #yaALLAHcomments #Quran #Dua #MuslimMarriage #Matrimony

  13. Srh on said:

    Assalam Alaikum. Is wazifa ki jo sharaiten hain, Kya isay har roz 90 days tak karna hai ya phir first time 1 baar hi Karke Baaqi ka wazifa 90 days tak complete Karna hai?
    Jazzak Allah

  14. zaib khan on said:

    main ne kal se yeh wazifa perhna start kiya hia .. it takes 2;45 mins to read this all .. i will complete next two days too inshaAllah and then some one from my side will talk to him I am hopeful everything will be ok and we will be happy again

    • ãl عِmrãń on said:

      thats really great dear sis. #yaALLAHcomments

  15. izzaa on said:

    salam imran bhae.. ager nikah istkahra possitive ae and larkaa bhi razi ho.. lekin us k parents razi na ho to konsa wazefa parha jae,.. plz bataye ..

    • ãl عِmrãń on said:

      Upar wala bhi kar sakte hai ap. #yaALLAHcomments

  16. shazia on said:

    Assalam o alaikum imran bhai ye wazifa 3din me kis trh puts krna h rozana 11000 bar padhna h ya 11000 KO e days me pardhna h agr 11000 3days me padhna h to kis trh devide kare 11000 ko 3days me pllzz bataye

    • ãl عِmrãń on said:

      Rozana 11000 martaba. #yaALLAHcomments

  17. kanwal on said:

    Assalam o alaikum
    me istkhara kr chuki hun positive sign ae hein or ye b aya he k unk ghr me koi 2 log na khush hoge to kia me yeh wazifa kr skti hun un 2 members ko razi krne k liye?.

    • ãl عِmrãń on said:

      yes. #yaALLAHcomments

  18. Maliha on said:

    Assalamalaikum,this webpage is really vry good mashallah as d duas r either from Allah’s names or from d quran. My brother is a doctor n is studying MD,uske liye v r seeing rishtas for almost 1 yr lekin koi rishta jamta nahi,khandaan mai lots of ppl rukawat kar rahe hai. N jabhi bhi rishte ki baat hoti hai ghar mai kuch na kuch na itefaqi hoti hai. N humme jo rishta pasand ata hai ladki wale se ya no hotoi hai ya kuch din k baad humari taraf se hi peeche hat jate hai. Abhi ek rishta aya tha jisme hum sab ghar walo ki taraf se haan thi,ladkiwa le bhi ghor kar rahe the phir beech mai kisni ne kuch kaha n ladki walo ne kaha k rishta is good bt hum aur behtar rishta dondhenge. Yeh rishte ko 1 month hogaya hai,phir last week kisine kaha k ladki ka rishta abhi tak nahi hua aaplog phir se baat kariye,ammi ne istiqara kiya toe acha nikala n inshallah hum ek do din mai baat kaenge phir se waha. Plz aap kuch aisa strong waizifa bataye jisse yeh time haan ho jaye. Sorry for d long request looking forward for a positive reply Inshallah.

  19. heena sayyed on said:

    ASSALAMUALIKUM BHAI AGR ME YE WAZIFA KRU OR 3 DAY KE BAAD MTLB 4 DAY KO LADKA KHUD SE HO KE MUJHE SHAADI KI BAAT KRE Q K VO LADKA MUJHESE BAAT NAI KR RHA HAI OR FIR KOI CONTACT BHI NAI HAI ISISLYE
    ALLAH HAFIZ

    • ãl عِmrãń on said:

      Proposal apki taraf se jana chahiye dear. #yaALLAHcomments

  20. heena sayyed on said:

    ASSALAMUALIAKUM KYA 4 DAY RISTA BHEJAWANA ZRURI HAI KYA Q K MERA US LADKE SE KOI CONTACT ME NAI HU ISISLIYE KYA AISA HO SKTA HAI KE ME YE WAZIFA KRU OR 4 DAY VO LADKA KHUD MUJHE CONTACT KRKE SHAADI KE BAAT KRE
    PLZZ MUJE REPLY DE MUJH KBI APNI COMMENT KA REPLY NAI MILTA HAI TO IS BAR PLZZ REPLY KRE MUJHE
    ALLAH HAFIZ

    • ãl عِmrãń on said:

      Wazaif ki sarait zaruri hai dear sis. #yaALLAHcomments

  21. HEENA SAYYED on said:

    Bhai me ek ladke ko like krti hu or Vo bhi like krta hai Par uske parents ne naa bol diya Par Vo ladka ab mujhse baat nai krta hai to me khud se kaise bol skti hu shaadi ki baat to ye wazifa kaise kru me, ya agr ye ho skta hai ke me ye wazifa kru or 4 day ko Vo khud gae shaadi ka riste ki baat kre mujhese

  22. asalam o alaikum
    sir mujhe puchna ha k agr koi girl n boy ek dusre ko psnd krty hon or phone call pe sureh fatiha prh k 3 baar kabul hai,keh dn to unka nikha ho jaye ga,bina kc gawah k?????plz answer me

    • ãl عِmrãń on said:

      Ji nahi hota. #yaALLAHcomments

  23. zeb on said:

    main being a larki rishta nia bhej sakti. istekhara positv hia lekin ghar walon k differences ki waja se humari bhi bat chet nahi hai
    agr bat na ki jai tu kia ho ga
    aur mujhe meri situation k according koi wazifa batayen plz

  24. bmd on said:

    Can’t this be done any time of the day?

    • ãl عِmrãń on said:

      Agar waha likha hai to ha parh sakte hai.
      #yaALLAHcomments

  25. Hira naz on said:

    Bhai kia esa ho skta hy k teen din tak mein ye perhu or 4th day mein os larky se khud shadi ki baat keru ? Ya ap koi dusra wazifa suggest ker dein. Mera nikah istakhara positive hy.

    • ãl عِmrãń on said:

      Ji ap karke dekhle.
      #yaALLAHcomments

  26. Imraan bro…me ek ladke ko chahti hu wo muje chahta tha but ab wo mere contact me nhi hai nd uska village mere village se door hai…muje wo ladke ke saath hi marriage karni hai…me bahut dua bhi karti hu nd allah ke paas is tarah dua maagti hu ki allah gaibi madad karke hamari maagni karwaye…to bro muje aiysa wajifa batao ki allah gaibi madad karke me jise chahti hu uske saath meri shadi karwa ye nd mere parents bhi raaji rahe hamare riste se….mene nikah istikhara kiya hai nd wo positive hai….

  27. Maria on said:

    Retirement ka liay wazifa

    • ãl عِmrãń on said:

      Retirement for what?
      #yaALLAHcomments

  28. Hira naz on said:

    Bhai mene nikah istakhara kia hy wo positive hy. Mein chahti hu wo khud mjse shadi ki baat kery. To konsa wazifa perhu? Mei jub shadi ki baat krti hu wo ignore krta hy. Mjse baat krna chor dya hy osny. Plz reply bhai.

  29. assalamwalikum……………we are five sisters and the eldest one is 34+ we are looking for a suitable match she is a working girl….there is lot of problem for her proposal………….please tell us any wazifa for her so can she,ll get married…………

  30. Aisha shaikh on said:

    Kya rishte ke liye haan ka wazifa main apni beti ke liye kar sakti hoon ?

    • ãl عِmrãń on said:

      Yes you can.#yaALLAHcomments

  31. khan on said:

    Assalam walekum
    Kya rishta bhijwana zaruri hai agar na bhijwa sake to kya ye wazifa work karege agar hum sirf 3 days padhe bas plzzz batae

    • ãl عِmrãń on said:

      Ji ha zaruri hai bhijwana. Aur ji ha 3 days hi parhna hai waha clearly likha hua hai. #yaALLAHcomments

  32. iramjuned on said:

    imran bhai bataye agr 4he din rihsta na bhejwa paye ya contact na kar paye to kya wazeefa kam nhi krega..

    • ãl عِmrãń on said:

      Ji Insha ALLAH kam karega aur ho sakta hai ke na bhi kare, lekin wazifa ki sharait puri karenge to zarur kam karega. #yaALLAHcomments

  33. asalam walikum….. mra nam nimra haimjh apka page bht acha lga mjh b apsa advice chahye…..mi apne cousion ko like krti hun aur wo b mjh like krty han lkn unki mama nh man rae han please ap baten mi kia krun k unki mama ajaen aur mri mama sa bt krlyn

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