The co-education system in convent schools today is another example for Muslim girls and boys to adapt into. Wherein, many of them love this boyfriend kinda relationship. Which is absolutely illegible and forbidden in Islam. However, it may sound awkward and narrow-minded and stereotype thoughts for current modern age.

Advice Muslim Marriage by ya ALLAH Website

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With The Name of ALLAH, The Gracious and The Merciful
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Wazifa for Muslim Matrimonial Relationships

Also Known as Rishte Ki Ha Ke Liye Wazifa

This is really a very modern age with high technology and fast services. Being Muslim, sometimes it seems impossible for us to survive in this hi-tech world. The co-education system in convent schools today is another example for Muslim girls and boys to adapt into. Wherein, many of them love this boyfriend kinda relationship. Which is absolutely illegible and forbidden in Islam. However, it may sound awkward and narrow-minded and stereotype thoughts for current modern age. Whereas, to refrain and live in limits is far better than to fall in committing a sin.

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Islam never allows a girl mingling with a non-mahram male. If you keep yourself within the limits. It will never lead you to the path of Shaitan. Here, I am talking about the western culture.

If you look deeper into The Noble Qur’an, sink into Hadith and Sunnah. You will learn how a normal common man can live a happier normal life? Refraining himself from the entire leisures of the world. Let us not confuse ourselves with this. I am just coming to the point which is a pivot- ‘Love‘. Islam never says don’t fall in love’ but Islam stresses to ‘marry the one you love’.  See Ruqyah Shariah here.

ALLAH Subhanahu Wata ‘Ala has said in the Holy Quran in Chapter 5 Surah Al-Maidah Verse #5

This day are (all) things good and pure made lawful unto you. The food of the People of the Book is lawful unto you and yours is lawful unto them. (Lawful unto you in marriage) are (not only) chaste women who are believers but chaste women among the People of the Book revealed before your time when ye give them their due dowers and desire chastity, not lewdness nor secret intrigues. If anyone rejects faith fruitless is his work and in the Hereafter, he will be in the ranks of those who are losers. See Al-Fatiha Islamic Wazifa here.

ALLAH Subhanahu Wata ‘Ala has said in the Holy Quran in Surah Ar-Room Verse #21

And among His (ALLAH’s) Signs is this that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that ye may dwell in tranquillity with them; and He has put love and mercy between your (hearts); verily in that are Signs for those who reflect. See Islams Praying Importance & Offering Namaz here.

ALLAH Subhanahu Wata ‘Ala has said in the Holy Quran Chapter 17 Surah Israa Verse #32

Do not even go near Zina (fornication or adultery) for it is a very indecent thing and a very evil way!

Jaber related that the Prophet (SallALLAHU Alayhe Wasallam) said: When one of you seeks a woman in marriage let him look at whom he wishes to marry.
Related by Abu Dawood

Mughirah ibn Shu’bah narrated: I sought a woman in marriage. The Messenger of Allah (SallALLAHU Alayhe Wasallam) asked me :Have you seen her? I said: No. He (SallALLAHU Alayhe Wasallam) then said: Then look at her, because it is more proper that love should be cemented between you.
Related by Ahmed, Ibn Majah, Nasai, and Trimidhi

So we can conclude that if you love someone you should marry him/her. Love a woman only for the sake of ALLAH Ta’ala, to marry her. To live a legible idol life as a Muslim. If you are in love with anyone, do not commit zinah (fornication). This is Haram. Instead, rush to your parents and tell them politely about it. Let them handle this. As they can decide best for you then what you have decided for yourself.

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‘yaALLAH Rishte Ki Ha Liye Wazifa’ also known as Muslim Marriage Advice

If you have any confusion about your marriage with any particular boy. You can perform a yaALLAH Nikah Istikhara. This will Insha ALLAH help you to come to the right conclusion. Now, I am publishing one more Special yaALLAH Wazifa which is ‘yaALLAH Rishte Ki Ha Ke Liye Wazifa‘. If you have got any proposal which generally is the process in any arranged marriage in Islam. Or if you love anyone and you want to marry him/her but he/she is not accepting your proposal but rejecting every time. You can perform this wazifa and Insha ALLAH your proposal will be accepted this time Insha ALLAH, Ameen.

In these two conditions you can perform this:

1. If you have got any marriage proposal;
2. If you love someone and he/she or the parents are rejecting your marriage proposal.

#yaALLAHQuotes I am a lover of sadness, let my tears fall from my cheeks, I am thirsty of this saltwater! 

Muslim Marriage Advice or ‘yaALLAH Rishte Ki Ha Ke Liye’ in Urdu

یا اللّٰه ویبسائٹ کا رشتے کے لئے وظیفہ

١. طہارت وغیرہ سے فارغ ہو کر اس عمل کو کیجیے۔

How to perform this Muslim Marriage Advice or ‘yaALLAH Rishte Ki Ha Ke Liye’ in Roman English?

1. Tahaarat wagerah se faarigh hokar ye wazifa kijiyega;
2. Sabse awwal taza wuzoo bana lijiye;
3. Akele aur alhaidgi mein kisi kamre mein bethiye;
4. Fir Ya Mutakabbiru 11000 (gyarah hazar) martaba parhiye;
5. Sirf 3 roz ye wazifa kijiye tino roz kisi bhi ek hi waqt;
6. Chauthe roz ap chahe to ladki/ladke ke ghar par apne waledain ya kisi buzurg ke zariye rishta bhijwaye;
7. Insha ALLAH is Ism ki taaqat se rishte ke liye haan hogi, Ameen.

Ghaur Talab: Khwateen behtar hoga ke haiz/maahwari ke 7 roz ke dauran na kare. Wazifa karne ki manahi nahi hai lekin shayad ke wazifa ka asar na bhi ho.

How to perform this Muslim Marriage Advice or ‘yaALLAH Rishte Ki Ha Ke Liye’ in English?

1. Make yourself free from toilet and all for deeper concentration;
2. Make a fresh ablution;
3. Read Ya Mutakabbiru 11000 times in lonely place or room;
4. Perform this wazifa for 3 days only;
5. The fourth day you or your parents, approach the girl/boy family for proposing for marriage;
6. Insha ALLAH with the powerful effects of this Name of ALLAH Ta’ala, the proposal will be accepted, Ameen.

Important Note: I advise you better not to perform this during the 7 days of menses/periods. As you might not see favorable results.

How to perform this Muslim Marriage Advice or ‘yaALLAH Rishte Ki Ha Ke Liye’ in Hindi?

रिश्ते की हाँ के लिए या अल्लाह वज़ीफ़ा हिंदी ज़ुबान में

1. किसी भी रोज़ और किसी भी बेहतर वक़्त शुरू कर सकते है;
2. तहारत वगेरह से फ़ारिग़ होकर ये वज़ीफ़ा शुरू कीजियेगा;
3. सबसे अव्वल ताज़ा वुज़ू बना लीजिये;
4. फिर या मुतकब्बिरु 11000 मरतबा अकेले और अलहैदगी में किसी कमरे में पढ़िए;
5. सिर्फ 3 रोज़ ये वज़ीफ़ा कीजिये तीनो रोज़ किसी भी एक ही वक़्त कीजिये;
6. चौथे रोज़ अपने वालेदैन से रिश्ता भिजवाये लड़की/लड़के के घर पर;
7. इन्शा अल्लाह इस इस्म की ताक़त से रिश्ते के लिए हाँ होगी, आमीन;

ग़ौरतलब: ख़वातीन के लिए बेहतर होगा के वो हैज़/माहवारी के 7 रोज़ के दौरान ये अमल न करे| वज़ीफ़ा करने की मनाही नहीं है लेकिन शायद के वज़ीफ़ा का असर न भी हो| ये अमल शुरू करने से पहले या अल्लाह निकाह इस्तिख़ारा या फिर कोई दूसरा इस्तिख़ारा करना ज़रूरी है और उसकी ताबीर आपके हक़ में बेहतर आयी हो|