Love Marriage in Islam Muslim Dating Outcome Rules

July 11, 2019 by Al Imran

I begin With The Name of ALLAH, The Beneficent and The Merciful, بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم Bismillah hirRahman nirRaheem. Please read a Durood Shareef first, SallALLAHU ‘Ala Mu’hammad SallALLAHU Alayhe Wasallam

Recommendations for Love in Islam, An Outcome of Dating by Muslim

Tech savvy Muslim teens these days chat with their friends and relatives through a number of social networking sites. Moreover, televisions and smartphones have snatched the interaction between the family members of the home. Kids have lost their adolescence and innocence. Side effects of technology have not only harmed this but even our health also.

No or Lack of our punctuality in namaz. Muslim youth is now more prone towards the path of Shaitan. Gradually, getting involved in haram relationships is really a Shaitan’s conspiracy against the slaves of ALLAH Azzawajal. If you are one of among them and want to break haram relationship then please refrain yourself from these datings and lonely meetings with a non-mahram. We possess a weak Deen which can easily be shaken by the Shaitan. Most of the love marriage in Islam is generally an outcome of the Muslim dating websites.

Love Marriage in Islam, Muslim Dating Outcome Rules

When you love someone just love for the sake of ALLAH and get married in a Halal way

What to do?

If you have a love for someone and he/she also love you back. Do not commit sin. If you both want to marry each other. Just follow the proper steps as according to Islam. Approach his/her parents through your parents and try to make the parents agree. Speak with them in a very calm and cool manner to let them understand your situation. Do not try to black them emotionally.

This will create a hatred for you in their hearts. If it’s not working you can get in touch with your elder brother or sister who can discuss this issue with your parents. Never try to hide anything from them. Always speak truth from the beginning.

Falling in Love Allowed in Islam

In short and precise I would say Off Course Yes!

Islam never prohibits anyone to love someone. Love is an emotion that has been created by ALLAH Subhanahu Wata ‘Ala. You can love someone and even you can marry him/her. But never indulge with the Shaitan’s activities and commit any kind of sins in your relationship. This is what Shaitan is waiting for. If you love someone you can approach her parents as this usually happens in arrange marriage.

ALLAH Azzawajal says in The Holy Quran Chapter 5 Surah Al Maidah Verse #5:

This day are (all) things good and pure made lawful unto you. The food of the People of the Book is lawful unto you and yours is lawful unto them. (Lawful unto you in marriage) are (not only) chaste women who are believers but chaste women among the People of the Book revealed before your time when ye give them their due dowers and desire chastity, not lewdness nor secret intrigues. If anyone rejects faith fruitless is his work and in the Hereafter he will be in the ranks of those who are losers.

ALLAH Azzawajal says in The Holy Quran Chapter 17 Surah Al-Israa Verse #32:

Do not even go near zina (fornication or adultery) for it is a very indecent thing and a very evil way!

ALLAH Azzawajal says in The Holy Quran Chapter 30 Surah Ar-Rome Verse #21:

And among His (ALLAH’s) Signs is this that HE created for you mates from among yourselves, that ye may dwell in tranquility with them; and HE has put love and mercy between your (hearts); verily in that are Signs for those who reflect.

Now, I am sure you will get to know the doubts of love in Islam. Love is an emotion created by ALLAH Ta’ala.

Love Marriage in Islam Muslim Dating Outcome Rules

What to do if you love someone?

  • Do not indulge in any kind of sin.
  • Pure intention of marriage.
  • Tell your parents. In a very polite manner let your parents know about your love.
  • Approach her parents with a marriage proposal. As in arrange marriage.
  • In case they rejected, do not go against them with a sprint marriage.
  • Let them take their time. Till then contact an elderly (Buzurg) person from their relations who can convince. Let that Buzurg talk to her parents.
  • Insha ALLAH they will become agree and you will get married soon, Ameen.
  • Else, you need to wait convince them…

23 Comments on “Love Marriage in Islam Muslim Dating Outcome Rules”

  1. Asslam o alaikum bhai.
    Mein 1 lrki ko buht pyar krta hon wo b buht krti mere se mein ne apny ghr btadiya hai wo razi hain shadi k liye lekin lrki ka rishta us k kisi czn k liya manga gya to us k ghr walon ne han krdi jb k lrki blkl b khush nhi hai abhi uski mangni nhi hoi bs han hoi. Mein usko khona nahi chahta wo mujy kehti hai kaly ilm se ye rishta khtm krwadon but mein ye nhi chahta…please koi wazifa btayn hum dono k liye k uska rishta na ho udhr ta k us k bad wo btaa sky apny ghr mere bary me… please help me please.

  2. aik larky ko pas and krti be any parents sy bat b ki. In ko jase hi me be btaya in logo NY meri dosri jagha duo khair krwa do.ab smj Nhi I rha me kya kro


  4. Assalamoalaikum, brother my Name is Asif and I enggaged on October but now girl saying she is not happy …I am doing some wazaif , one of my freind who are scholar gave me some wazaif I want to izaza for some of wazaif u posted .. O want to make her heart softern for me and she love me again same like before so make dua for me jazakallah khairah

  5. assalamo alaikum maine ya allah nikah istikara kiya h 2 nd time start krne k last din mere ko dikha ke wo aur main sath me ghumne gaye h aur bahut khush h to ab kya main wazifa kar skti hu

  6. Jazak Allah kher in sha Allah me zarur parungi yeh wazifa ghlt asr to ni karega hm dono gulf country me he but alag alag or wo abhi force training me he to is wazife se usk dimagh me ghkt asar to ni kareg. Or ek question kia rat k kisi b wqt pr skte hen bua sone se pehle plz jwab dijiyega. ALLAH HAFIZ.

  7. Assalam w aleykum
    Mai ek non Muslim ladki se shadi karna chahta hu app mujhe kuch bataye ki wo convert hone ko tayyar ho jaye aur mujhe se shadi ke liye razi ho jaye …….plz kuch bataye

    God bless you ……

  8. Assalam o alaikum.
    Imran bhai me apne csn ko pasnd krti hun me unse shadi krna chahti hun pehle wo b chahta tha par ab pta ni q wo rishtw ki bt ni chalana chahta sare ghr wale razi hein bus uski han k wait kar rahe hein mene istkhara b kiya ta apne btaya positive he par mene istkhare se pehle someone fall in love wala wazifa kiya ta wo wazifa krte wqt bus ek dfa response aya ta usk trf se ramzan me wo wazifa kiya ta par usk bad ab tk koi response ni aya me chahti hun wo agree ho jae shadi k liye or rishte k liye han keh de plz koi wazifa batae jis se usk dil me mere liye muhabbat peda ho or wo dil se rishte k liye han keh de. Plzzz ans zaror dijiyega waiting.. ALLAH HAFIZ☺

  9. Assalawalekum Imran

    How are you May Allah bless you always and Really impressed by the work you are doing for. May Allah always bless you.
    I just need you to put some views and details about Meher in Islam if you could do that it would be great and Also please inbox me your Number as I lost it Sorry.

    Allah Hafiz


  10. Bhai i want to marry a non muslim guy jo convert hone ko tayyar h..humara relation schooltyms se hai..he intended to marry me n approached my father bt he keeps on denyin this..its bin 2 years..i m waiting for their approval..kya ye galat h? Shadi krne ka irada humara hamesha se tha..wo kehte hain ki muslim ladke se kaho kisi bhi to abhi kr denge shadi..wo kya hai? Actualy he is nt rich..his dad died of cancer..n they r suffering financialy..n my people are kinda rich..wo kehte hain muslim bnna kya hota h..kaun zimmedari lega uski..kaun waldiyat lega lyk dat..kya mai galat hu??

    1. Unki zimmedar me lunga insha ALLAH ap fikr na kare. Agar wo convert hone ke liye tayyar hai to. Ye sab karne ke pahle he should accept Islam only then your dua will be accepted.

    1. Yes, it seems there is some technical issues in posting a comment. Let me check and resolve. #yaALLAHcomments

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